second thing is getting counselling help. There are many other problems in our life. Only alcoholism is not a problem. Many problems come along with alcoholism problem. Like economical problem due to alcoholism, problem between relations, problems with children, legal problems. There are many problems like this. So stopping alcoholism is not the only solutions. For eg. you have loans due to his alcohol problem. If he stops drinking alcohol, will the loan problem be solved? To pay that loan what all he should do and what he shouldn't do. With the help of counsellor, we can prioritise and see which loan can be paid first. For such things, conselling support is needed for 2 years. Thirdly AA fellowship is a must. AA relation is Alcoholics anonymous fellowship. The members of AA fellowship are the ones who stopped drinking from many years. This is a self help group. In chennai almost 6 to 7 meetings are happening on daily basis. This was started in 1935 and it is now worldwide. When you attend the meetings and listen to them you will get confidence that even you can quit drinking. To control alcoholism all these 3 things are must for 3 years. Meeting support is advisable for lifetime. Even relapse is considered as recovery because it always teaches them a lesson.